What can I expect at an Events4SoCal Takeover event?

We provide a location where you can meet many couples without the bother of being looked at by those who dont understand your lifestyle prefrence. Our staff is always friendly and fun. While they may not be participants in the lifestyle they don't judge you for who you are. We always have a great DJ and a full bar. There is no sexual activity at our event. This Takeover is designed for those of you who want to meet others in a comfortable atmosphere without the pressure of an On Premise Club.

What is the dress code?

We try to keep our policy on this simple. Sexy is encouraged for the ladies. Guys, we ask you stay away from shorts and flip flops. Put your best look together for this night. Keep in mind our events are held in public venues.

How do I get on the guest list?

These parties are invitation only. This means you have to contact us, provide your first names and a means of contact. If you use one of the websites that are listed in our Links section please include your screen name. Couples and sinlge women are invited to these events. No Single males are on our guest list. We will verify you are a real couple. This means either a phone contact if you are not on aone of the prefered sites or via recent certifications on your profile. Each couple must check in at the door with security who will make sure you are on the guest list for the event.

What if I know someone who's there from my REAL life?

This happens often. Keep in mind if you see someone at our event it means they are in the same lifestyle as you are. It means they went through the same process you have and are attending the event for the same reason you are.

Are lifestyle parties illegal?

No. This rumor is totally false. Any event we put together is 100% legal. Our events are "Off Premise" events. The entry fee you pay at the door is for a private party. There is no sex at our events. Any type of illegal activity witnessed by our security team will cause immediate removal from the event and you will be banned from attending any other events hosted by our group. This has never happened due to the amount of respect our guests give these events.

Can I just show up at the door and be admitted?

No. You must sign up for this event. We are at capacity most every night we do an event. We also want to make sure we are dealing with the real lifestyle community.

Will I have a good time?

Come to one of our events and find out. We have learned that if you sit in a corner and don't open yourself up to conversation you may not meet as many people as those who are talking to everyone. Our advice is for you to smile and shake hands with people. Don't pick one spot next to the bar and stay there all night. There's dancing, fun contests and so much more at our events. This is a social gathering. Saying hello is the key.

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